Mediation
Family Law
Arbitration
Sessions are confidential and focused on problem-solving rather than blame, allowing families to move toward fair, workable solutions at their own pace. Once agreements are reached, parties may choose to have the agreement reviewed by an experienced attorney. Then the agreement and all required paperwork are submitted to the court.
Choosing a skilled mediator is one of the most important decisions parties will make. The issues raised in a divorce or other family matter can be complex, and the decisions reached can have lasting consequences. Private mediation with an experienced and knowledgeable neutral allows parties to design their own solutions and future plans- guided by expert support. The result is an agreement that is customized, informed, and sustainable. Mediation also reduces conflict, fosters future cooperation, and is typically the most efficient and cost-effective path forward.
There is no one-size-fits-all approach to mediation and Judge Prestley is particularly attuned to the unique circumstances each case presents. She recognizes the importance of ensuring that each party is heard and that a level playing field is maintained. Judge Prestley views the role of mediator as a privilege and takes a personal interest in helping parties reach outcomes, they consider fair and reasonable. She is committed to achieving these results in a process that minimizes both time and expense.
Judge Prestley mediates all issues related to family matters, including, but not limited to, divorce, child custody disagreements, post-judgment matters and blended family concerns. She offers an initial complimentary consultation. For the mediation itself, the parties can participate either in person or virtually.
During a mediation, the parties meet with a neutral experienced mediator who helps identify and resolve issues in ways that meet court requirements. Those issues may include division of assets, child custody, parenting schedules, and other financial and practical matters. The mediator does not take sides or make any decisions but rather guides the discussions, helps clarify priorities, and encourages open and positive communication. Judge Prestley’s expertise in the family law arena allows her to knowledgeably guide those discussions in directions that lead to resolutions. She considers the concerns of the parties and offers new and creative options that might not have occurred to the parties outside of the mediation process.
Prior to my retirement, I spent decades of my judicial practice mediating family matters, both with families and with attorneys. My watch words were to be real, practical, and positive. The results were generally better than what could be achieved through litigation, and most often saved everyone a lot of conflict and expense. After I stepped down from the bench, working as a mediator was a natural transition for me.
My role is to help parties identify the unresolved issues and find common ground in resolving those issues in a way that benefits both the parties and any children involved.
That depends on the complexity or simplicity of your case and how quickly you are able to reach agreement on each issue. The typical mediation takes anywhere between six weeks to three months, with two hour sessions every few weeks.
I provide virtual services as well as in-person mediation services and can be reached at the following:
Connecticut cases contact
Ct Mediation Center
Address: 427 Naubec Ave. #101
Glastonbury, Ct. 06033
Tel: (860) 986-1141
Email: info@ctmediationcenter.com
Massachusetts and all other states
Judge Prestley’s office
Tel: (860) 922-3594
Email: PrestleyADR@gmail.com
My mediation style is direct, calm, and "solution focused". I strive to create an environment that is respectful, where the parties feel heard and supported, while focusing on optimal outcomes. I draw on my judicial experience by guiding difficult conversations with clarity and patience
Mediation is usually faster, produces better results and is cost effective. It keeps the lawyers and judges away from the decision-making and allows parties the opportunity to find a mutually acceptable path to resolve difficult issues.
I am most helpful with emotionally charged issues involving children, complex financial matters, and high conflict communications. Drawing on my judicial experience, I help keep discussions focused, balanced and productive so families can reach practical, fair solutions.