What Is Mediation and Why Does It Work?
Mediation is a private and voluntary process where individuals have the opportunity to discuss their needs and concerns in a structured, respectful setting. With the guidance of an experienced mediator, participants identify the core issues and work together toward resolutions that reflect their priorities and values. Rather than leaving decisions in the hands of a court, mediation allows the parties to determine what matters most — and how best to move forward.
While every case is unique, mediation consistently offers meaningful advantages that extend beyond traditional litigation.
Flexible Scheduling
Mediation sessions are arranged according to the participants’ availability, offering far more flexibility than court calendars allow. This approach minimizes disruption to work, family, and daily life, while keeping progress steady and efficient.
Advantages of Mediation
Mediation Saves Time and Reduces Costs
Mediation offers an efficient, cost-effective alternative to litigation. Rather than waiting months for court dates and rulings, the process moves forward at a pace determined by the parties. With a neutral mediator guiding discussions and maintaining balance, time and resources can be directed toward resolution instead of courtroom procedure.
Prestley ADR offers a complimentary consultation to help you determine the best way to proceed. This meeting is for informational purposes only and does not include legal advice.
Preserving Peace Within the Family
Litigation often amplifies conflict in ways that affect the entire family, especially children. Mediation, by contrast, encourages calm communication and cooperative problem-solving. The goal is to reduce stress, promote understanding, and create outcomes that support long-term family well-being.
Privacy and Confidentiality
Court proceedings become part of the public record, meaning personal and financial details can be exposed. Mediation takes place in a private, confidential setting. What is shared during sessions remains protected and cannot be used later in court. This level of discretion allows participants to speak openly and focus on resolution without concern for public disclosure.
A Neutral and Fair Process
Judge Prestley’s role as mediator is to ensure fairness and balance throughout the process. She does not take sides or make decisions for the parties. Instead, she provides legal context, facilitates dialogue, and helps each side make informed choices that lead to mutually acceptable solutions.
Mediation Helps You Stay in Control and Make Informed Decisions
In mediation, the parties—not the court—decide the outcome. Judge Prestley guides discussions and offers insight based on her extensive experience, but the decisions remain entirely in your hands. Unlike litigation, where control is turned over to a judge, mediation empowers you to shape solutions that align with your family’s values and priorities.
This process encourages thoughtful decision-making and open communication, allowing both sides to feel heard and respected. For many, mediation offers something court proceedings cannot: the opportunity to resolve sensitive matters privately, with dignity, and on their own terms.
When individuals retain that sense of control, they are more likely to reach lasting agreements and move forward with clarity and confidence. Mediation provides the structure, support, and neutrality to make that possible.
Interested in learning more about mediation with former Judge Linda Prestley? Fill out the form on this page to receive information about her family and divorce mediation services. Linda helps couples and families resolve disputes respectfully and efficiently outside of court.
